The Art Of A Good Marriage 美好婚姻的兿術

Happiness in marriage is not something that just happens.
A good marriage must be created.
In marriage the little things are the big things.
It is never being too old to hold hands.
It is remembering to say "I love you" at least once a day.
It is never going to sleep angry.
It is at no time taking the other for granted;the courtship should not endwith the honeymoon, it should continue through the years.
It is having a mutual sense of values and common objectives.
It is standing together facing the world.It is forming a circle of love that gathers the whole family.
It is doing things for each other, not in the attitude of duty or sacrifice,but in the spirit of joy.
It is speaking words of appreciationand demonstrating gratitude in thoughtful ways.
It is not looking for perfection in each other.
It is cultivating flexibility, patience, understanding and a sense of humour.
It is having the capacity to forgive and forget.
It is giving each other an atmosphere in which each can grow old.
It is a common search for the good and the beautiful.
It is establishing a relationship in which the independence is equal,dependence is mutual and the obligation is reciprocal.
It is not only marrying the right partner, it is being the right partner.

Anders Hejlsberg的信念

我喜歡看程式語言大師Anders Hejlsberg在MSDN發表的文章, Anders Hejlsberg的想法和我的想法在很多地方不謀而合, 看起來很有共鳴的感覺.
今天看到一篇他的interview "A Conversation with Anders Hejlsberg - The C# Design Process",當提到Checked Excpetion的versionability and scalability issues 討論時,他的一個信念:

"I'm a strong believer that if you don't have anything right to say, or anything that moves the art forward, then you'd better just be completely silent and neutral, as opposed to trying to lay out a framework."
(如果你對該問題不具有發言權，也沒辦法推進其解決進程，那麼最好保持沉默和中立，而不應該擺出一個非此即彼的架勢。)

真的十分認同!
如果大部份人也用這種做法, 開會也許會有效率得多 =)

活著吧, 如同今日是末日一樣...

今天看《我係金三珣》(My Lovely Samsuni)，裏面提出現一首艾佛烈德索薩的詩,令我很有感覺:

Work like you don’t need the money;
Dance like nobody’s watching;
Sing like nobody’s listening;
Love like you’ve never been hurt;
Live life every day as if it were your last.

工作吧, 如同不需要金錢一樣
跳舞吧, 如同沒有任何人注視你一樣
唱歌吧, 如同沒有任何人聆听一樣
去愛吧, 如同從來沒有受過傷害一樣
活著吧, 如同今日是末日一樣